Halloween Before Pumpkins
Ducking for apples was a fortune game for sweethearts.
The same moment, today
At almost any party where people are secretly interested in each other, someone eventually suggests a party game. Nobody wants to say what they actually feel out loud. That feels too risky, and getting rejected in front of a room hurts. A silly game gives everyone an excuse to test the waters. If things go well, it feels like good luck. If things go wrong, everyone can laugh and pretend it was just part of the rules.
Ducking for apples started as that kind of game. Today it's just wet kids at an autumn festival, but it used to be about romance. Unmarried young people stood over a tub of water with their hands tied behind their backs. They plunged their faces into the cold water to grab an apple with their teeth. Catching one meant you might be the next person to marry, or you got to sleep with it under your pillow to dream about your sweetheart. It turned a nervous question about love into a noisy, messy contest where nobody had to look graceful.
The lesson
When you want to know what someone thinks of you, don't overcomplicate it. Sometimes an awkward game makes an honest answer easier to hear.
Where this comes from
Matchmaking in a wash tub
In 1786, Charles Vallancey wrote in Dublin about Irish youths ducking for apples on All Hallows' Eve to learn their fortunes. By 1912, Mary E. Blain published a book in New York called Games for Hallow-e'en that spelled out the exact rules. Hosts set out two tubs across the room. One tub had apples tied with slips of paper naming the boys, and the other tub held apples for the girls. Guests leaned in with their hands tied behind them and pulled out an apple with their teeth. The slip inside gave you your future spouse's name.
People have always used silly party games to ask serious questions about love.
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pairs with
Toss an apple peel over your shoulder; it lands as their initial.
Another Halloween game that used orchard fruit to name a future partner.
extends to
Find the ring in the barmbrack, marry within the year.
A holiday food game where finding a token promised a wedding.
contrasts with
Samhain fires on the hills began the Gaelic winter.
A solemn outdoor ritual marking winter rather than an indoor parlor game.